
Is He Really in Recovery? Is Your Partner Truly Changing After Sexual Betrayal?
Darrell and MaryAnn discuss the critical question of how does a wife know if her husband is actually in recovery or just checking the boxes. They also discuss Darrell’s Mountain Work Intensives and how they help men tolerate the shame while looking deeply at the harms they have caused.
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Darrell shares about “The Secret Sexual Basement” in a conversation with Kris Rocha and Jen Howe

Darrell takes a deep dive with MaryAnn Michaelis on matters around the Secret Sexual Basement and Dr. Omar Minwalla’s 22 hospital rooms of harm metaphor.
- Part One: “The Hidden Damage of Betrayal: The Secret Sexual Basement & the Grief We Don’t See with Pastor Darrell Brazell” Part 1 of a 3 part series.
- Part Two: Grieving Lost Reality:Gaslighting, Abuse, and Intentional Deception with Darrell Brazell
Part Three: Why Betrayal Gets Worse After Discovery (What No One Tells You)
Therapists Growing Therapist Podcast February 6, 2025
Living Truth Podcast April 4, 2022 “The Secret Sexual Basement”
- Darrell visits with Kristin Cary about the “Secret Sexual Basement” and the impossible forced choice his deceptions create for her.
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Living Truth Podcast April 18, 2022 “A Pastor’s Perspective On Dealing With Problematic Sexual Behavior.”
- Darrell visits with Kristin Cary about the “Secret Sexual Basement” in the context of the church and how pastors, counselors and other pastoral care people can do a better job helping both the husband and the wife in these difficult situations.
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Restored 2 More August 25, 2020.
- Darrell visits with Clinton and Charity Munoz about pornography, sexual addiction, shame and the struggles these issues present to the church.
